[Agt Zach]

Feb 23, 2010... my son Colton James... passed away due to SIDS.

I know this isn't necessarily the place to publish it.. but right now, in our mental state... my family needs all the support we can get.

Colton was born December 17th, 2009... he lived a short, yet fulfilled life. He always warmed our hearts with his little smiles, fussing, and cute little face gestures. All of his family misses him and loves him dearly.

oh no

nobody can feel the weight you feel on you chest, nevertheless I am very sorry

my boy is 22 months old - we were scared about SIDS and many times during the night his mother or myself moved him to check he is ok for the first 12 months...

you are a young couple, take some time for things to settle and then go for his brother (or sister), it's probably the best cure for you

I am very sorry - you have to be strong for your wife

[andree]

Please accept my deepest condolences for your tragic loss. Though I can't share much my own experience, but believe me, I do understand the feeling. Be tough for your wife, buddy! Miracles do happen!

cheers,
andree

[timothy]

My deepest condolences for this tragic loss

May He Rest In Peace!
My deepest condolences....It's hard to describe in words my feelings for your loss.

We lost our grandchild for 7mnd's ago. She was 4 y.o and died of Trisomy18.
Small feet's sets deep tracks


Zippo

[FredM]

That is very sad news. Hoping you will heal a little every day.

[koky]

My deepest condolences for this tragic loss.

[Mr FuFu]

My thoughts are with you and with your family.

[lifehacker]

All I can do is offer you my deepest condolences. I hope you you pull through this tragedy, if theres anything this community can do let me know.

[Agt Zach]

I appreciate ALL of the replies, so thank you to everyone. There's one thing I can't manage to get out of my head:

When your Parents pass away, you're considered an Orphan...
When your Wife passes away, you're considered a Widower...
When your Husband passes away, you're considered a Widow...
When your Child passes away... there is no word in the English Dictionary to depict what you have become..
...but...
There is a description.... and it is "Sheer Hell".

it's because parents are not supposed to bury their own kids - it is unnatural

there is no word (that I know of) for it in Greek either... (arguably one of the richest languages in the world)

be strong man

[star84]

So sorry for your loss!
There is a word, it's "parent." You will always be a mommy and daddy no matter where your son is.

[LZF]

So sad to read this, my condolences as well of course, do not give up hope, eventually it will bond you tighter together.

Just can't stop thinking of you Agt Zach.

Hope you are, after all, feeling ok and that you are getting stronger as the day's go by. Wish you both ALL the best for the future!

[Agt Zach]

Well, things have gotten much better. We still think about him everyday, but it would be considered in-humane not to do so.

We both thank everyone who had prayed and shared their love & tears.

He was never really ours, we were just babysitting an angel. His true father wanted him back. Too bad so soon.