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Apr 24th, 2015, 8:05 am
raindrops wrote:Aw, now for guy, he's a joker. Meant to be funny, so don't take it too hard, mmin :)


I think the important word here is "meant" - when does "funny" cross the line to cruel, humiliating and disdainful and to continue to be "funny" at that person's expense, i.e. mmin, it's not funny.

I got a very thick hide, not much upsets me, but what does upset me is to see the little guy/girl or noobie picked on, that pisses me off a lot.
Apr 24th, 2015, 8:05 am

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Apr 24th, 2015, 12:46 pm
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Apr 24th, 2015, 12:46 pm

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Apr 24th, 2015, 2:20 pm
Running for office Isak ? Presidency or you want to be a moderator ?

Or is this more of the 'ethnic' humour that just went right over my head ? :?
Apr 24th, 2015, 2:20 pm
Apr 24th, 2015, 2:30 pm
I'm wondering why these goofy comments that have nothing to do w/ the thread also! :?

Fatima99 wrote:I think the important word here is "meant" - when does "funny" cross the line to cruel, humiliating and disdainful and to continue to be "funny" at that person's expense, i.e. mmin, it's not funny.

I got a very thick hide, not much upsets me, but what does upset me is to see the little guy/girl or noobie picked on, that pisses me off a lot.


It's funny when you laugh with someone, not at them! :(
Apr 24th, 2015, 2:30 pm
Apr 24th, 2015, 3:01 pm
StanW wrote:
.................... that just went right over my head ? :?




Exactly that. :D

Wouldn't be the first time :lol:


Wasn't it sometime back, someone wanted to be "an agent in no time at all, yelling me, me and me" ?
Yeah, the same. :D
Apr 24th, 2015, 3:01 pm

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Apr 26th, 2015, 12:02 pm
PinkWorld wrote:
mmin wrote:seems i'm being legitimately harassed:

viewtopic.php?p=2598112#2598112

I don't know, obviously the guy doesn't have anything better to do than bullying people - it's irritating as it is sad



Hello mmin,

That was clearly meant as a joke, but seeing that this is an international community, there are a lot of cultural differences. What it is perceived as a joke from the poster, might be considered as something else from the recipient of the joke. You have to keep in mind that there is absolutely no reason for someone to harass you [especially when that someone is part of the staff]. Usually, the staff tries to resolve issues of harassment that may arise between members.
Cracking a joke or two, makes the staff seem more approachable and friendly.

Don't take it too hard ;)

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yeah, you're right, i'm sure i was overreacting!cheers!
Apr 26th, 2015, 12:02 pm
Apr 26th, 2015, 12:03 pm
Isak wrote:Let us all boogie!!!!



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amen
Apr 26th, 2015, 12:03 pm
Apr 26th, 2015, 12:06 pm
Fatima99 wrote:
raindrops wrote:Aw, now for guy, he's a joker. Meant to be funny, so don't take it too hard, mmin :)


I think the important word here is "meant" - when does "funny" cross the line to cruel, humiliating and disdainful and to continue to be "funny" at that person's expense, i.e. mmin, it's not funny.

I got a very thick hide, not much upsets me, but what does upset me is to see the little guy/girl or noobie picked on, that pisses me off a lot.


no it's all good, it's all so FUNNY hahahah, i'm so thoroughly amused by now - keep them jokes coming - :lol: :lol:
Apr 26th, 2015, 12:06 pm
Apr 26th, 2015, 12:15 pm
I think this is getting out of control. I haven't been around these last few days tending to an illness, and i have no idea what happened with this presidency stuff, i ahve not a clue what it even means, i must have missed sth of douchy importancy. I guess another Joke. Got it. Haha.

I jsut want to thank those of you supporting me, but i'm not going to make any more comments in this or any other thread, except for participating in the occssional contest.

thank you guys, and believe me, i AM laughing because this is just kind of sad.

btw, you can always pm me about stuff. but i'm done with this.
Apr 26th, 2015, 12:15 pm
Apr 26th, 2015, 12:23 pm
OK, I know i said i wouldn't post again, but i just found out what this all presidency thing was about and i just want to say, as I pm-ed Guy himself : "I'm SO honoured"!

mmin for president lol lol lol

thank you and goodbye
Apr 26th, 2015, 12:23 pm
Apr 26th, 2015, 12:27 pm
Goodbye, mmin

I always have the last word :D
Apr 26th, 2015, 12:27 pm

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Apr 26th, 2015, 2:20 pm
Isak wrote:
I always have the last word :D


No you don't! :evil:

And mmin please don't stop participating because of this. I'm sure it was meant as a joke, but jokes are only funny when the person they're aimed at finds them funny too. As you said, there are a lot of really nice people in the contests section and we hope to see you soon.
Apr 26th, 2015, 2:20 pm
Apr 26th, 2015, 6:55 pm
One can sugarcoat it as much as one wants. It was never intended to be "funny".

To me what is more disappointing is to see that Guy, a senior Moderator, feels the need to still ridicule and mock mmin. The irony of the situation is that Mmin had expressed concern, right in the beginning, that he might get punished for even expressing that he had been treated in this way.

Well Guy has have proved him right. More ridicule for expressing that he had been ridiculed.
Apr 26th, 2015, 6:55 pm
Apr 27th, 2015, 4:22 pm
canmus wrote:One can sugarcoat it as much as one wants. It was never intended to be "funny".

To me what is more disappointing is to see that Guy, a senior Moderator, feels the need to still ridicule and mock mmin. The irony of the situation is that Mmin had expressed concern, right in the beginning, that he might get punished for even expressing that he had been treated in this way.

Well Guy has have proved him right. More ridicule for expressing that he had been ridiculed.


all is well but i totally appreciate the fervent support, man
Apr 27th, 2015, 4:22 pm
Apr 28th, 2015, 7:27 am
All is well and good.
Apr 28th, 2015, 7:27 am

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