Anonyma'am wrote:Frankly, I put the current off-screen violence, rom-com, helpful critters mysteries under "cozy". I do love a good bloody case with enough swearing to make a gangsta faint, but I don't always have the time or inclination to read one at the moment. So I tried cozies. Pleasant even if the characters are unreal. But I got tired real fast of the cute, female amateur sleuth having the broad-shouldered lawman shake his finger at her then smile, thus shrinking her panties by two sizes.
I guess, for now, the pink-glazed cats and vanilla-scented knitting is what I'm looking for.
I'm afraid I can't recommend anything cozy in the sense of 'cute and frothy'. Not that there's anything wrong with frothy reads. (I've been known to read Jilly Cooper and Fiona Walker, so there!

Don't tell anyone, I will deny everything.

) However, with mysteries I kind of gravitate towards the country house variety. Butlers, tea with arsenic, bodies in the library and such. Very cozy (i.e. 'no violence, no graphic sex, no foul language') and comforting, but in a different way than pink knitted cats, you know
Anyhow, here's a few suggestions:
The Grantchester Mysteries by James Runcie. Male protagonist. Not gory. Not sweary. But not fast-paced, either, so that's something to keep in mind.
Inspector Wilkins series (aka Burford Family series) by James Anderson. These are wacky, humorous pastiches of typical Golden Age country house mysteries.
Flavia de Luce series by Alan Bradley. No romance in these novels, because the main heroine is an 11-year old girl. Despite this fact, they are not children's books. Just intelligent, well-written mysteries.
And something a little different: Wells and Wong Mysteries by Robin Stevens. These actually
are children's books (or, perhaps, young adult), but they are not overly simplistic and can be enjoyed by adults as well. No romance there either, obviously.