I honestly don't remember not knowing how to read. I've always read anything that didn't read me first, and know where I got the habit. My mother read to me as a small child before tucking me into bed. She told me in later years I grasped the concept before I could actually do it - she'd fast forward through the story she was reading to get on to other chores, and I'd say "No, mommy! You missed this part!" and point unerringly at the spot she'd skipped over. (This had side effects in later years as I read well beyond my grade level starting in kindergarten...)
I tell people concerned about getting their kids to read to read to them when they are too young to do it themselves. I've seen too many people who never learned to see reading as fun. It's a chore they do because they have to, and turn to other things like TV as soon as possible. Give kids the idea that reading is fun and worth learning to do, and many problems go away.
My SO's nephews are an example. Their father read, and their mother didn't. Dad would come home from work and plunk himself down in front of the TV to wait for dinner. Guess what habits the kids picked up? (I watched his older son go into an alpha trance as soon as the TV was turned on.)
I tell people concerned about getting their kids to read to read to them when they are too young to do it themselves. I've seen too many people who never learned to see reading as fun. It's a chore they do because they have to, and turn to other things like TV as soon as possible. Give kids the idea that reading is fun and worth learning to do, and many problems go away.
My SO's nephews are an example. Their father read, and their mother didn't. Dad would come home from work and plunk himself down in front of the TV to wait for dinner. Guess what habits the kids picked up? (I watched his older son go into an alpha trance as soon as the TV was turned on.)