is there a some kind of software that can unblock peoples private number when they call you "for your pocketpc" or how can you find out how the person is with the private number "with out getting the cops in it.

nope, I don't think so, unfortunately private numbers come directly from the network itself, so there isn't any way any software can un-hide them

i do not think that it is possible to write such software, you must have confedential information from all of the gsm networks in the world in order to do it, which noone will give you

yes... but how do you send sms messages that show immadiately on the screen (flash messages) without having to go into the inbox?

I tried one proggy but it didn't work on WM5, any suggestions?